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After having gone out on another date with somebody new, you are finally home. What a bad evening. Again you find yourself wondering about your break up and if it is feasible to get your relationship back.

After a hard break up, it is completely normal to want to find somebody new. But no matter how many new dates you go on, you still find yourself thinking about the things you should have done to escape breaking up with your ex in the first place.

Rather than simply regretting your break up, here are five no-nonsense things you can do to try to get your relationship back.

To start off, you ought to stop going out with other people. Going on dates with a wide range of people is not productive if you would like to get your ex back. By dating, your mind will become conflicted and you will not be able to focus all of your mind energy on rebuilding your relationship. Put an additional way, if you are in the dating scene, you won't be able to focus all your efforts on getting your relationship back. Hooking up with others will positively wreck your chances of getting your ex back.

Second, keep your pride. You can keep your dignity and pride by not chasing your ex all over the place. Don't assault your ex with the digital means of communication by sending numerous text messages or flooding social accounts like twitter or facebook. It is very important that you do not pursue your ex by following them around, especially to bars and nightclubs.

Keep your self-respect. You must not tolerate being bullied by your ex. In order to be treated courteously by your ex, you should constantly uphold your maturity and confidence. If you make it appear as if your world has collapsed without your ex, then they will perceive you as weak and insecure.

Third, recollect all the great things about your ex and try to avoid rehashing the bad. Pinpointing all the bad qualities of an ex is a natural reaction to a difficult break up. Seeing the best in an ex helps you overcome some of the more negative feelings you need to overcome as you rebuild your relationship.

Fourth, once you are back together with your ex, don't return to the same old places you used to hang out at together. If you would like to make a fresh start and give your relationship a great chance, then go and see new things and seek out new social contacts. A change of scenery and activities will help both of you go forward with a positive outlook. By simply going back to the same old way of doing things you will get into your old relationship patterns and perhaps relive the same old problems.

Lastly, set up an unambiguous set of expectations about where you both want your relationship to go. By establishing goals for your relationship, you both can agree to wherever you would like the relationship to go. Remember that one of the major reasons relationships fail in the first place is because of unrealistic expectations that are held by one or both people.

So, if you would like to get your relationship back, transform some of your old patterns and you will be well on your way to a successful rekindling of your love for each other.